You don’t have a schematic, so it’s hard to do a full review, but I see a few issues with this design:
It looks like you are low-side switching the lights. If the lights are powered from 12V (which it looks like with the LAMBALAR connector having a 12V pin), you will back-feed the 5V rail with something close to 12V (12V - the lamp’s voltage drop at low current - the diode drop). The PIC won’t be happy with that
You need bypass capacitors right at the VCC pins of the PIC. 100n should be good there.
Your 12V and ground traces are very long and thin. They should be direct and fat to reduce voltage drop and ground bounce.
Traces should connect to other traces at right angles; acute bends or connections can cause acid traps
It’s best to have the crystal and caps close to the pins on the micro, and to ground the caps by the most direct route to the micro’s ground pin
You will be blinking lights (ie, drawing slugs of current). I’d add a few hundred mics of bulk capacitance to the board
You don’t have any mounting holes
For convenience, you may want to add a 5-pin ICSP header
The wiring on the buttons doesn’t look right, but it’s hard to tell without a schematic. It looks like the gate or base gets left floating when the button isn’t pressed