a phototransistor stimulated by an IR LED seems the simplest, but I should add that there is no direct line of sight. The wireless signal must go through walls
What are the on/off periods? How long does it stay on or off. These last mentioned receiver/transmitter pairs are not intended for slow steady signals. Also, it it does not detect the carrierwave of the transmitter, it will increase it’s amplification of the received signal. This might cause detection of spurious false signal changes.
Even lightswitch remote controls have a microcontroller to encode the ID of the switch or lamp, and to encode it a fashion that is a not-static signal level. (look-up manchester encoding.)