okay, I don’t know the proper terminology but you know how on some schematics you see pins or connections labeled instead of a net wire between them? They are connected but just have labels to make the schem look neater. Yeah, those.
Repeat these steps on any pin that you wish to connect and make sure you keep the net name the SAME. When you do that correctly, Eagle will pop up a window asking if you wish for these nets to be connected.
Note that entering a pre-existing name will cause a connection to that net. very useful to make connections with out actually drawing them. I do that all the time to have clean schematics. Of course, then you definitely want labels so you can see what’s what.
Search for ‘symbol’ in the ‘Add’ dialog and you’ll find a bunch of nifty net-name tag thingers (found in the ‘Frames’ library). Gives your schematic that ‘professional’ look.